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Daughters-in-law break tradition, carry mother-in-law's body for last rites in Maha

The four daughters-in-law from Maharashtra's Beed broke age-old traditions and carried the dead body of their beloved mother-in-law for the last rites. They showed that their love for the deceased could not be restricted by any tradition.

Daughters-in-law carry mother-in-law's body for the last rites
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Published : Sep 12, 2019, 9:11 PM IST

Updated : Sep 13, 2019, 12:01 AM IST

Beed (Maharashtra): In a rare display of affinity, four tearful daughters-in-law broke age-old traditions and carried the body of their beloved mother-in-law for the last rites, who expired in Maharashtra's Beed on Monday morning.

The incident, which made many onlookers emotional, was witnessed in Kashinath Nagar area of this town in Marathwada.

The woman -- Sunderbai Dagdu Naikwade (83) passed away at her home on Monday due to old age, leaving behind her inconsolable family of four sons, their wives and grandchildren.

Daughters-in-law break tradition, carry mother-in-law's body for last rites in Maha

"Her last wish was to donate her eyes. We fulfilled her final wish. In fact, when our father Dagdu passed away in 2013, the family had donated his eyes," the oldest son, Navnath D Naikwade told media.

As her two sons and two step-sons, grandchildren and other relatives started making the funeral arrangements, the four distraught daughters-in-law decided to do something for their mother-in-law, who was more like a mother to them.

To the amazement and disbelief of many relatives and the neighbourhood, the daughters-in-law volunteered to lend their shoulders to carry their mother-in-law's body to the local crematorium.

They are - Lata Navnath Naikwade, Usha Radhakishan Naikwade, step-brothers' wives - Manisha Jalinder Naikwade and Meena Machhindra Naikwade.

When there were some mild murmurs of protests, the four women insisted on breaking the traditions and finally hoisted their mother-in-law Sunderbai's flower-bedecked open coffin on their shoulders and marched to the crematorium.

They were trailed by their relatives, neighbours and friends, including many women and en route, many curious onlookers also joined the never-seen-before funeral procession.

The women didn't falter and boldly carried Sunderbai's body for around a quarter of a kilometre, then the menfolk took over for another quarter km before it was placed in a waiting hearse-van to go to the crematorium, around four kms away.

People who are close to the family later said that the deceased had shared a very close bond with each of her four daughters-in-law who too had enormous love and respect for her.

It is because of this that the women could not stop themselves from coming forward and lifting the mortal remains of their mother-in-law.

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Beed (Maharashtra): In a rare display of affinity, four tearful daughters-in-law broke age-old traditions and carried the body of their beloved mother-in-law for the last rites, who expired in Maharashtra's Beed on Monday morning.

The incident, which made many onlookers emotional, was witnessed in Kashinath Nagar area of this town in Marathwada.

The woman -- Sunderbai Dagdu Naikwade (83) passed away at her home on Monday due to old age, leaving behind her inconsolable family of four sons, their wives and grandchildren.

Daughters-in-law break tradition, carry mother-in-law's body for last rites in Maha

"Her last wish was to donate her eyes. We fulfilled her final wish. In fact, when our father Dagdu passed away in 2013, the family had donated his eyes," the oldest son, Navnath D Naikwade told media.

As her two sons and two step-sons, grandchildren and other relatives started making the funeral arrangements, the four distraught daughters-in-law decided to do something for their mother-in-law, who was more like a mother to them.

To the amazement and disbelief of many relatives and the neighbourhood, the daughters-in-law volunteered to lend their shoulders to carry their mother-in-law's body to the local crematorium.

They are - Lata Navnath Naikwade, Usha Radhakishan Naikwade, step-brothers' wives - Manisha Jalinder Naikwade and Meena Machhindra Naikwade.

When there were some mild murmurs of protests, the four women insisted on breaking the traditions and finally hoisted their mother-in-law Sunderbai's flower-bedecked open coffin on their shoulders and marched to the crematorium.

They were trailed by their relatives, neighbours and friends, including many women and en route, many curious onlookers also joined the never-seen-before funeral procession.

The women didn't falter and boldly carried Sunderbai's body for around a quarter of a kilometre, then the menfolk took over for another quarter km before it was placed in a waiting hearse-van to go to the crematorium, around four kms away.

People who are close to the family later said that the deceased had shared a very close bond with each of her four daughters-in-law who too had enormous love and respect for her.

It is because of this that the women could not stop themselves from coming forward and lifting the mortal remains of their mother-in-law.

Also Read: Maharashtra stays 'exorbitant' traffic violation fines

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बीड- वंशाला दिवा म्हणून मुलगाच हवा, मुलगा मुलगा नसेल तर मोक्ष मिळत नाही. असा काहीसा समज असलेल्यांच्या डोळ्यात झणझणीत अंजन घालणारी घटना सोमवारी बीडमध्ये गल्ली आहे. पोटी मुलगा असूनही लेकी प्रमाणे सांभाळलेल्या सुनांनीच सासूला मृत्यूनंतर खांदा देत अंत्यसंस्कारासाठी स्मशानभूमीकडे नेले. आजवर मुलीने अग्नीडाग दिलेला अनेक घटना आहेत मात्र चक्क सासूला सुनेनेच खांदा देत सासूचे अंत्यसंस्कार केले.

बीड शहरातील काशिनाथ नगरमधील सुंदरबाई दगडू नाईकवाडे यांचे 83 व्या वर्षी वृद्धापकाळाने सोमवारी पहाटे निधन झालं. सुंदरबाई यांना 4 सुना आहेत. त्यांनी चौघींनाही पोटच्या मुलीप्रमाणे वागवलं. कधीही त्यांच्यात भेदभाव केला नाही. लेकीप्रमाणे सांभाळल्यामुळे सुनांचं देखील सासूवर प्रेम होतं. मात्र, गौरी-गणपतीचा सण संपताच सुंदराबाईंचं निधन झालं. त्यांच्या जाण्यामुळे संपूर्ण कुटुंबाला धक्का बसला. सकाळी अंत्यविधी निघाली त्यावेळी मुलांनी आणि जावयांनी खांदा दिला. पण आमच्या आईला आम्ही खांदा देणार असं म्हणत चौघी सुनांनी सुंदराबाई यांच्या पार्थिवाला खांदा दिला. अजूनही अनेक ठिकाणी महिलांना साधं स्मशानभूमित जाण्यासही परवानगी नाही. अशा परिस्थितीत महिलांनी पार्थिवाला खांदा देण्याची घटना पहिल्यांदाच बीड मध्ये घडली आहे.

चोघींनी प्रेमापोटी प्रथेला आणि परंपरेला फाटा देत अंत्ययात्रेत पार्थिवाला खांदा दिला. परंपरेला मोडीत काढून स्त्रीला सुख दुःखामध्ये समान अधिकार असावेत असा उत्तम संदेश या निमिताने समाजापुढे ठेवला आहे. सुशिक्षित असलेल्या नाईकवाडे कुटुंबानी दुःखामध्ये पण सामाजिक संदेश दिला. लता नवनाथ नाईकवाडे, उषा राधाकिसन नाईकवाडे, मनीषा जालिंदर नाईकवाडे आणि मीना मच्छिंद्र नाईकवाडे अशी 4 सुनांची नावं आहे.Body:बConclusion:ब
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