Is Social Media Affecting Your Teenagers Mental Health?

These days, most teenagers use social media accounts like Facebook and Instagram to keep in touch with their friends and stay updated with their lives. But even though social media has brought us all closer together, what we often ignore is that it is taking a toll on ours, especially our kids' mental health too.

Multiple studies have shown that teenagers who use social media excessively do so because they are either bored, need an escape from their immediate physical environment, are feeling overwhelmed and stressed, are lonely, have few real-time friends or need to feel appreciated and validated.

Using social media in moderation isn't bad. In fact, it can help boost serotonin and other feel-good chemicals in the brain and can help uplift a person's mood. Most people take a selfie and post it on social media, and feel good about themselves when people like their post and comment on it. But, this can be problematic when they become habitual of it. Many people feel compelled to post photos of themselves multiple times a day and keep checking their accounts for the number of likes they have received.

Is Your Teenage Addicted To Social Media?

Let's now dig a little deeper and see the signs a person, parent, or loved one can look for to differentiate between social media usage and addiction. You can safely say a person is addicted to social media if you notice the following things in him/her:

• If a person is thinking and talking about social media most of the time.
• If they ritually use social media multiple times a day
• If they are using social media instead of attending to other important things in their life.
• If they are procrastinating on other important tasks and using social media instead.
• If they get frustrated and throw anger tantrums in case of not being able to use social media
• If there is a fear of missing out on "life" if they don't stay connected on social media
• If social media usage has affected their studies.
• If they keep checking their social media accounts during conversations.
• If a person avoids social events to be on social media.
• If they lie about the time they spend on social media
• If they have not been able to reduce the time they spend on social media.

What Can Parents Do?

Here are a few things that parents have found to be effective in teenage social media addiction:

• Discuss the teenager's use of social media in a non-hostile and loving manner. Keep reminding them that you are concerned only for their well-being.
• Help them plan their day and follow a set schedule.
• Set a "no mobile phone" policy at different times of the day/night, like no cell phones during meal times, while watching TV, during family time and at bedtime.
• Set tasks that require a person to be busy offline.
• Enroll them in a new hobby.
• Use less of social media yourself to set an example for your teens'.
• Seek help early from a mental health professional.

The use of social media has also resulted in many teenagers globally being subjected to name-calling, harassment, embarrassment, humiliation, stalking, threats and becoming victims of fraud. It has led to a spike in teenage mental health issues and even death.

Dr. Vihan Sanyal, Psychotherapist says, “If a teenager is subjected to any form of online bullying, it can leave a lasting negative impact that can stay with the individual for years to come. The power of social media, in my opinion, is not fully comprehended by many. In school, a person may be subjected to an incident of bullying or harassment, which is usually restricted to a small group of people. Negative or derogatory comments about a person posted on social media reach a wider and global audience. It is also permanent and can be seen by all. This can really damage an individual's self-esteem and level of confidence.

There is also a correlation between excessive social media usage and mental disorders like anxiety, depression, sleep disorders, ADHD, paranoia, delusions, suicidal thoughts, and self-harm. It is very important for users to keep a check on the amount of time they spend on social media. They need to recognize the signs of social media addiction and take the necessary steps quickly to ensure they do not become addicted to social media”.

How Much Time Should Someone Spend On Social Media?

Studies have found that thirty minutes of social media usage helps give a boost to a person's mood. But, using social media for more than two hours a day can increase the risk of developing depressive symptoms. One needs to strike a balance and use social media tools effectively.

When social media platforms are used responsibly, then they become a source of enjoyment and fulfillment. They can help a person feel good about themselves, help them stay socially connected with friends globally, connect with other like-minded people, share ideas and thoughts, and stay informed of current affairs. They also become aware of social events and have the opportunity to demonstrate their talents and skills.

What Can Parents/Adults Do If They Are Addicted To Social Media?

There are many effective modalities in psychotherapy that can help young adults break free from the excessive use of social media. Here are some effective tools professionals use to help people:

Counselling: Mental health counselling allows a person to explore their inner feelings and emotions in a safe and non-judgemental environment. It promotes awareness and helps a person come up with alternative options to deal with the situation.

CBT: CBT stands for Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. CBT helps a person to recognize unhelpful thoughts and the errors they are making in their thinking. A trained CBT professional helps clients recognize such thoughts and help them to correct the errors they may be making in thinking. This helps to correct the behavior and results in better moods and feelings.

Mindfulness: Mindfulness is another very effective way to help build awareness and reduce hyperactivity and restlessness. Mindfulness helps people become more grounded and centered and recognize their feelings and emotions. Many underlying emotions are allowed to surface and be released.

It is important to connect with a mental health professional who can help in this area and help a person live a fuller and more meaningful life. Social media use and abuse have increased during the pandemic, and many are struggling to reduce time spent on social media. Sometimes it's not something a person may be able to achieve by themselves. External professional help may be required.

(Dr. Vihan Sanyal, Psychotherapist)

(IANS)