This year, the festival of Raksha Bandhan, which celebrates the beautiful bond of a brother and sister across India, has come with a sense of fear amongst people. The pandemic is keeping people restricted to their homes, markets are empty and the festive vibe is missing. However, this year it will be something new, digital, and more precautious than ever. We talked to a psychiatrist, Dr. Veena Krishnan about the situation and she says, “Looking at the current situations, there is a constant fear amongst people. Unlike the past, to celebrate or not to celebrate, is a dilemma people are facing and due to which there is a little disappointment in them. However, it is important that people be optimistic and instead of celebrating the festival at a big scale, a little in-house ceremony, alongside following all the precautions, can be performed.”
Siblings or cousins may not be able to meet each other this time, but today the world has become so small due to excellent connectivity via phone and internet that even if people are not physically present, they can connect with each other digitally, which is rather a safer option amidst the pandemic situation. “This will make them feel emotionally strong and connected,” adds Dr. Veena.
What's The Trend This Year?
- Follow all safety measures while celebrating.
- Wear a mask, gloves and other protective gears if visiting a family living nearby
- Ensure proper sanitization of hands
- Instead of buying sweets from the market, make something healthy yourself at home
- Instead of chocolates and other expensive gifts, give your siblings some healthy fruits or things that will be useful for them amidst the current situation like sanitizer, masks, etc.
The festival remains the same, but its meaning has changed over time. Today we talk about women's empowerment and equality in society. Women today are capable of being independent. It’s not only the brother who commits to keeping his sister safe, but sisters too assure the same. Dr. Veena says that unlike the old days, Raksha Bandhan is now being celebrated as a social event. Rakhi making events are organised in schools and the Rakhis are sent to our soldiers posted on the borders and many young girls and women also tie Rakhi to policemen, all those who ensure our safety and security. This new trend not only brings a sense of affinity but also brings a positive attitude.
Therefore, these days, not only sisters tie Rakhi on their brother’s wrist, but younger siblings also tie this safety band on their elder sister’s wrist. The commitment to safety is mutual. Although this year, this festival may be a little different, the feeling of love and support amongst siblings and cousins remains the same.
